Internal Happiness
2:34 PM - Posted by Neha Singh - 10
Sometimes i wonder what is the motto of each of ours lives... i used to wonder why do we live...what should i do that makes me happy from within.....what is the purpose of our life...

What is it that makes us happy from within???? i have come across a lot of people who gave me different answers to this.... Some said shopping is something that makes me happy..... some said i like drinking( drink whole day and get away from all thoughts of this world)... even i wondered a lot of times that what is that something that makes me happy each and every time i do it.....

Emmm...... I thought, thought and thought didn't get an answer..... then my mind gave me few answers on which i thought for sometime....is it the flowers ??? because as and when i get flowers a smile comes on my face and makes me happy..but then i thought for some more time on it...and my mind said again...Hello, we are talking about internal happiness and not happiness that comes and fades away..sometimes flowers just bring a smile but do not enlighten my mood from within..

And finally one day i found the answer........Emmm so what do you think it can be........okie let me narrate you a story.......

I have a sweet roomie her name is Ammu... Her birthday was approaching and i being her roommate didn't know what should i do to make her feel special.....

It was 23rd of Dec and both of us where in Bangalore Central (for those who don't know about Bangalore central it is a part of the Central brand, which has malls all over India owned by Pantaloon Retail).She liked a toy that was hanging on the roofs of Central all over and said Neha christmas is approaching y don't you gift me this..I looked at it..It was actually a cute one but then i said leave it...u are grown up lets check out some new clothes in the store..and at the back of my mind i had already planned to get that toy for her on her birthday.. the next thing i did was i went back to central and found out when can i buy it because the toy was on display and was not for sale... they told me that i can come back and buy it in the month of January after the new year's...Hmmm so the plan was in place i had decided to get that toy for her and i got it and kept it at my friend's place.

As her birthday was approaching,i was thinking of giving her a good surprise. Emm the 1st plan that came into my head was telling her that i wont be coming back to the PG tonight and saying that i would be going to a friend's place and then without her knowledge going to the terrace of the PG and decorating it..the other idea was going to the PG with her and then going to the terrace without her knowledge and decorating it with balloons and candles.......i decided to go ahead with the second plan

And then as usual as my plans change at the last minute this one also changed..At exactly 22:00 hrs on 7th January me,piu and nami planned not to celebrate her bday...Hang on...by not celebrating her bday i dont mean not celebrating it at all...But what i mean is not celebrating it in the PG.....the masterminds began to work.....phonecalls....giggles and whispers in room no 12 began....

At around 23:40 hrs at night we woke up our Ammu and asked her to get ready...Me, Piu and Nami were already ready..... Mohit had come to pick up all of us as per the plan and we told Ammu that all of us are going for a long drive...At 23:50 hrs at night Ammu was confused as to where we were taking her...

We took her to a restaurant and she was shocked to see there a table decorated with balloons and frills..... and there weere two other friends of ours Naga and JD... Now how did it all happen...There is a story behind this also....At 23:00hrs Naga and JD had come outside our PG and we gave them the frills, cake and the blown balloons which was blown by Nami and Piu under my supervision after all this was the only place and chance i got where i could use my managerial skills :P... Ok now we had given all the stuff to JD and Naga and they went to the restaurant and decorated it...

Ammu was shocked and to see all that and then we got her cake and the magic candles on the cake which took her lungs out.... And then i gave her the toy she had asked me for and she loved it..... Ammu had also told me that she had to pick up some dress for her birthday and as she wasn't keeping well she couldnt go out for shopping so i took got her a nice party wear also.....

And then Ammu opened a Champaign and then the party began.. We chit chatted , hogged , laughed and had fun...And then at 1.30 am in the morning we went to the coffee shop in Leela Palace and we were there till 4:30 am in the morning having fun.... We clicked a lot of photographs and chit chatted a lot.....I was very sleepy but all that mattered to me was the smile on Ammu's face...She was very happy.....

It was then i realised it again that something that gives me internal happiness is when i do something which bring a smile on other's face and makes them happy......









Rocket Singh-Salesman of the year
12:54 AM - Posted by Neha Singh - 5
Hmmm.... After so many days i truly loved a movie..Rocket Singh-Salesman of the year.. i watched it for the second time today.. Every scene in it reminds me of some or the other person i have come across in my life or some or the other incident that has occurred in my life..People at times are so proud and confident about the position they hold that they sometimes don't even realize what they are speaking to their sub-ordinates...Even the sales guys are humans... They also have feelings.... But at times their bosses forget this... They are given targets that can never be achieved....One field where your past performance will be forgotten.. What will be seen is how is your present doing.....

The movie shows that it doesn't matter if you are a topper in your college days or not and how much marks you scored..All that matters is your attitude towards life....There are students who never study throughout the year and manage passing by getting decent marks... I was one of them... I never wanted to be a topper but i never wanted to be the person in the bottom line also..... I never used to study during the exams..Used to open my book in the morning just an hour before the exam...Then close it in the next two minutes ....Then either read through the slides or go to someone to just understand few concepts... There used to be people around me whom i have heard saying she doesn't study at all.. How will she get a job.....And the same people sat with me in the interview process in which i got a job and they didn't.....Today i would just like to tell all of them.....Guys mugging up things won't help neither back biting does..... Understanding things is the most important and ya at the end of the day all that matters to the interviewer is your attitude towards life, job and the company...............


Friends............
5:53 PM - Posted by Neha Singh - 9
Emmm........When i think about friendship and friends...... I feel that i am really lucky......Touch wood.....

What is friendship all about.....??????
It's a mixture of smile and tears, fights and love,arguments and what not.... I have had friends in almost all in the phases of my life.......

My friends where there when i was upset...They were there with me when i cried......
They were there with me when i did mistakes and unlike anyone who just wouldn't care to correct you and let it be as it is ,they corrected me.....
They were there to celebrate my success...They were there to laugh with me.....
They where there to hide my mistakes and help me rectify them.....
They were there to listen to all my nonsensical talks and still smile and never complain....

Unlike other people who have one or two friends i m blessed with lots of friends.....Today i would like to thank all of them for being with me in all the ups and downs of my life.....

Shail--I have been knowing her from past 5 years now and she is still the same....Sweet,loving,caring and protective......One thing that i like about her is that she is not fake unlike others .....She never hides anything from me and neither i hide from her..Though at times i am scared from telling her mistakes that i commit but at the end of the day i just cant stop myself from telling her everything.....When we are together we dont need anyone along with us....We both can have fun together.............

Ruchi- Ruchi...is a gem of a person...She is a sweetheart...More then a Friend she has been an elder sister to me... We have had our share of fun....Fights...tears and laughter.....She is the same in and out.....One genuine person on earth....Someone whom you can look upto when you dont know what to do and whom to approach..she would give unbiased suggestions if you ask her for...Very practical in life....she has taught me a lot of things in life..The most important thing is differentiating right or wrong....She knows me more than anyone else in this world.....Love her a lot.........

Sid and Sharad--- When i think of my friendship with Sid and Sharad i remember the movie Dostana .....One girl with two friends whom she can trust and rely on .....The song "Jane kyun Dil janta hai....Tu hai to I"ll be alrite" goes to both of you.....Both of them have treated me like a kid...Loved me a lot and pampered me......Thanks for being there......i have hurted sid a lot of times but he has never complained....he has still stood beside me when i was alone and needed a fren.....Sid you are just the best....Sharad is one person who can do anything for our friendship.....He s so damn funny.....Whenever i am upset he would make me laugh by his stupid PJ's.....U guys rock................

Nidz and Rohit--- The best couple i have ever met....Unlike other couples where only one of them is my friend...here both of them are my best friends.....Rohit my sweet nepali marwadi is a darling.....Hears little less and would be asking half of the times what what and what....Doesn't understand the short forms that i use while i chat with him or text him...So Rohit this is the reason i am using complete words in this post so that you can understand......Nidz is a darling....Full of life and is a fun loving girl.....i have learnt from her how to be brave..She was the one who motivated me to blog.... Loves her RD(Rohit Dhanawat) ....She is the most brave girl i have ever met.....Loves partying...Blogging..Listenin to good music...and what not....Nidz be the same..... I love you a lot...and you and Rohit are really important in my life...Thanks for always being there by my side.....And ya marry Buddy The Bitch soon...I dont like her

MJ--Lakshmi Narayan- he is a rockstar....he is the one who is tortured the most by me...I shout on him....i cry before him and sometimes irritate him to the core..But he has been the same....The reason why i haven't written a testimonial for you till date is....I dont know what to write about you.....You are a true friend...A gem....i get puzzled....when i sit down to write about you and that is what is happening to me right now...he is Mr.Geek and i am the ghost of his story...you are a true rockstar....sometimes i feel that i am talking to a walking encyclopedia when i talk to him...He is simply brilliant....He is the dude..

Vibhor- Hamare pyare Papa...That's what we used to call him in college...Now for the reason behind calling him papa you have to contact him only...He would tell you the reason behind this...Papa has been a precious person in my life...A brother, a guide at times and a really good friend...Me and papa have some similar interests like watching the movie as soon as it releases...Listening to good music, though our definition of good music is little different....Eating good food....Shopping...I admire papa for his commitment...Though he is equally lazy as i am...But towards certain things he is really committed....I admire him for that....Thanks for always being there as an elder brother and guiding me.......................

Ammu-I share a special relation with ammu..She is my roomie, loomie and my colleague.... She is great fun to be with...Is well balanced....Unlike me she is very matured.... keeps neglecting my stupid activities.....I have forced her to sit with me and watch all the saas bahu serials,and al the masala typo serials and shows that come on television...She is a good cook..i sometimes wonder after a long hard day how does she manage gathering energy to cook...Hats off to her... Guides me from time to time of what i should do and i shouldn't....Explains me the pros and cons of everything..She is a wonderful friend, then a roomie and then a colleague..........

Thanks to all my friends whose name i couldn't mention here...Thanks for always being there with me...Life would have been so incomplete without friends like you.....

Now finally why did i write this post.....Today Sharad called me and asked me a simple question...."Neha when you will get married...You will forget us and our friendship "and i told him No....You all would be the same to me...Atleast those whose name i have mentioned here.....

We would be friends forever.....

A song dedicated for all you guys out there.......

"ye dosti hum nahi chodengay"
Chodengay dum agar
Tera sath na Chodengay"

LOVE YA ALL
THANKS FOR BEING A PART OF MY SWEET LITTLE WORLD



My this post is dedicated to Farmville... :)
10:47 PM - Posted by Neha Singh - 5
i have a lot to write these days but just dont get time..Life has become really busy and i hardly get time and whatever little time i get i use it in playing farmville and mafia wars on facebook....

Damn facebook is so much of fun. I can never get bored on facebook....
It has so many quizzes that you can take and the best part is all the quizzes are different in their own way....

My favorite application on facebook is farmville.. It's really interesting people..You have land..You have a virtual market from which you can buy seeds, decorative items for your farm,trees, animals, grains,vehicles,buildings,fruits etc.You can plow the land, cultivate the vegetables , harvest the grains....... Oh my god.....................Its so much of fun.... i just cant tell you guys..... You can decorate your farm with fences,pond, house, scarecrow, hammock, mailbox etc etc....... I can spend one whole day infront of my laptop doing nothing except farming.....But poor me...i hardly get one whole day for farming.... you know what guys...you earn coins when you harvest vegetables, flowers and get experience points as well which helps you move up in farmville.... I just cant stop speaking about it...

What else do i do in my free time...Chat... Music..Movies...awww.. i love movies..as soon as the movie releases and you can see me booking the tickets and watching it..the latest movie that i watched is Ajab Prem Ki Gajab Kahani....i had expected a lot from this movie..that's d reason went to watch the primere show...but didn know it wud turn out to be so bad..i am just wondering...on basis of what it get 4 stars...i wouldn't have given it half a star also...

I am eagerly waiting for the movie...3 idiots...Aamir Khan is a superb actor...acts in only 1 movie in a year and that's completely different from all the normal ones....I am also eagerly waiting for the movie 2012.... expecting a lot from both these movies....

Hmm...I hardly get time to listen to good music these days.... I think i am growing old day by day...Have started watching all those saas bahu serials .....ehhehe....... :P

Anyways this is how i am leading my life.....:) busy but simple :)










where was i ????
9:48 PM - Posted by Neha Singh - 5
It's been long since i updated my blog and have been scolded by almost all my friends who read my blog regularly. One of them even came up to me and said "Neha i wouldn't talk to you till you update your blog" but alas he gave up... I am just so lazy..I don't think anyone in this world is as lazy as i am. So what's happening in my life these days??

It's been 3 months since i started working. I am loving it. The work culture is good, the people around are good. They are caring, helpful and fun loving. We work and have fun at the same time. Being into the sales field it has a lot of stress also involved in it. Every month new targets, new expectations and new enthusiasm to do something that's better then the last month.

My job basically involves meeting clients and convincing them to start a relationship with the bank.My clients are basically people who are in senior posts in companies or who are self employed and have surplus of cash to invest. It's difficult at times to convince people because due to the growing competiton almost all the banks provides you with the same kind of services, all that differs is the quality of services. Each and every client whom i meet is different from the other and throws new challenges before us.


Leave all this discussion... So how have you all been doing?? you know what i miss????I miss College...hostel..friends and of course the college management because you see we always had issues to talk about..they always used to add up spice in our life by doing something or the other.... Hehehehe... i miss those days man.........but ya the new life is not bad...its good too...

I am loving it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11


Neha's Incredible Journey - Post 4
7:49 PM - Posted by Neha Singh - 4

scene7 :7th Feb...9am....all of them get ready and assemble at the ground floor ready for the breakfast..the breakfast was bad but then Mr M is a food lover and so ate whatever he got...and Mr R got delighted seeing wada being served and ate 2 of them which were fried in some cheap oil.... after having the breakfast they boarded the bus....the guide took them to another bus stand where they changed their bus.....and took a different bus to go to the mountain hill and visit the temple..not to forget that Mr R had to pay for his excessive eating habits and his stomach was upset by now and so he decided to stay on liquid diet the whole day.... both Mr R and Miss Neha were dressed up in yellow and sitting together and so Mr M got another delightful opportunity to make fun of Miss Neha and this time everyone joined in.... by this time Miss Neha had got used to Mr M's jokes and she got along with them well...lots of the pictures were clicked till the bus reached the hill top…..the scenery was amazing…..Miss Neha has been brought up in the LAND OF DAWN LIT MOUNTAINS “ARUNACHAL PRADESH” and so she was enjoying the scenic beauty…and the height too and even the rest enjoyed except Mr R who was feeling giddy….now why was he feeling so is not clear…due to over eating or due to the height…….heheh

scene8:7th feb:10am.....the bus reached the hill top and Mr R ran to find a place for himself to freshen up...then drank 2 bottles of sprite to keep himself cool…..something was really wrong with his stomach…and it had to be afterall he ate so much…..while Mr R was busy drinkin cold drink what were others doing? Miss H and Mr M were busy searching a place to sit fot sometime…they found a place for themselves and happily sat there…what next….to their amazement a grape seller walked up to them and asked to move away from that place and said it is his place and he sells grapes there…hahaha……...then what next …the whole group deposited all the electronic items that they were carrying along with them in a shop the guide had shown..As carrying electronic items was not allowed in the temple…and so all the mobile phones..camera etc had to be deposited before they entered the temple…. The guide was continuously emphasising on the point that if everybody visits the temple soon and gets back to the bus fast and there is sufficient time left he would take all of them to another nearby temple….Mr V led all seven of them…he is really good at it you see…..



Neha's Incredible Journey - Post 3
12:03 AM - Posted by Neha Singh - 6

Scene 5:6th Feb 09...10 pm... everyone boarded the bus...since there where 4 gals and 3 guys and Mr V and Miss Va had already planned to sit together and so three girls Miss Neha , Miss H, Miss Me were left...and then Miss H and Miss Me choose to sit together and so Miss Neha had to sit with either Mr.R or Mr.M...she was keen about sitting with Mr.R as he had got a sheet along with him and so she thought probably at night if she feels cold she can borrow it from him..and same was the reason with Mr.M..Mr.M also wanted to sit with Mr.R fpr the same reason.. but then Miss.neha being a gal got an advantage as none in the group wanted Miss Neha to sit with some one else out of the group as it was an over night journey....u see being a girl is a boon at times.......... Mr r managed taking out the sheet from his bag...and after which what happened was just a shock to all of them.. The sheet was stinking badly and everybody was just closing their nose and trying not to smell it while Mr R was busy making everyone smell it... he was amused with his own idea of carrying a stinking sheet so that none uses it other than him and so at night if someone wants also none would like to use that stinking sheet and he can sleep happily...and was feeling proud about it...... and when Miss Neha took out perfume from her purse and sprayed it....Mr R complained where is this smell coming from rather than quoting the word fragrance....sometimes Mr R gives statements that you wouldn't have even thought of.....well the journey starts and all 7 of them get busy in clicking photographs..Miss Me is so tired after the roaming in the city whoel day that she fell asleep within 15mins of boarding the bus....and Mr R also manages falling asleep with his sheet after a while.....Miss H, Mr M, Miss Neha don't have sleep in their eyes...and the whole gang is clueless about Miss Va and Mr.V .....

Scene 6:-7th Feb....3.30am....the bus reached Tirupati...and all of them stood in the long long queue to get the ticket to get an entry to the temple....while every one was busy chit chatting and tired of standing in the queue Mr R was busy finding an oppurtunity for himself to go get out the place and eat something...he was hungry again and it was just 3.30 am...by the way when Mr R was busy thinking about food..what was the rest of the group busy in...Miss Me was busy on phone.... Miss H. Mr Va ,Mr V and Mr M were standing and laughing as Mr M asusual had chosen Miss Neha as his soft target and was busy making fun of her.......Miss Neha was getting irritated to the core but then she couldn't help it... her major supporter paps was missing and she thought that it's better to keep quiet at this point of time and not to show her anger and spoil the trip.....by the way for readers who don't know much bout Miss Neha she is a very short tempered girl...well at 4 in the morning...Mr R decided to ask everyone that is some one interested to eat sumthing...

Mr R was sure that none would say yes because it was 4 in the morning and none had brushed and so no1 would prefer eating something and drinking tea.and so when everyone said no...Mr R happily started moving towards the little shops that were open....Miss Neha wanted to escape Mr M's pestering and so choose to accompany Mr R till the tea shop....Miss Me also joined them...All three manage getting a Rajasthani tea shop and Mr R and Miss Me happily drank tea...while Mr R drank three cups of tea he was still feeling that something's missing and that was a packet of biscuit or something to eat....he tried his level best to figure out a shop where he could get something to eat but nothing was available...half heartedly Mr R returned along with Miss Me and Miss Neha.... and then the rest of them went to have tea.. after everyone assembled back again at the same place and joined the queue...Mr M started his normal work of irritatin Miss Neha....it was getting on her nerves now and she shouted on Mr M and said it's enough and moved out...But Mr V was corteous enough and so was Mr R to get her back and cheer her up by clickin her pics....and she was back to normal.....it was around 5 am and Mr R felt hungry again and so he left the group in serach of food...Mr R came back at 6...and got fresh hot idlis with him.....Miss Neha couldn control herelf anymore...she had thought that she wouldnt eat anything before visiting the temple but then those tempting idlis couldn be resisted....they got the tickets at 6.30 am in the morning and then again again moved towards the rajasthani tea shop....had tea and biscuits and boarded the bus to go which now took them to a hotel where they could freshen up themselves and get ready for the Darshan.