Have guys actually thought of what does a girl actually want in a relationship? Something that every boy wants to know. Is it love,money,attention,family background or looks?????
I am sure my friends must be wondering that it's been some 4-5 months since i have created my own blog and all of a sudden i came up with such a topic to write about.Well day before yesterday after lunch when i returned to my room and ideally sat with my books to study for the exam the very next day, i found that it's too early to start studying for the exam....Still there were some 17-18 hrs left for the exam to start....and so let me watch a movie!!!!!!!..Anyways it would just take 2hrs of my time and then i can probably sit with a fresh mood 2 study...Sorry Bhai!!!-
after the movie i sat down to think about the discussion i had with my frens during dinner few days back..what does a girl actually want in a relationship?.i was telling them that basically a girl looks for love and attention....ya money is important but then not too much that a girl would leave a guy for it....one of ma friends contradicted...saying"no neha there are girls who just run behind money.they want their guys to be rich and looks actually donot matter too much until and unless the guy can bear all the expenses"...when i thought about it i felt that yes probably such things also happen with girls...so today after watching the movie sorry bhai the topic became fresh in my mind again....... ofcourse looks do matter and even money does...every girl wants her guy to be rich and good looking...but what is that she looks for the most in the guy........love,care and attention.....
which girl would'nt love someone who is smart, rich....but every girl also wants someone who praises her...who cares for her....someone for whom she is the world...a guy who loves her more then she loves him....a guy who understands before she speaks....a guy who doesn't hesistate telling his friends that ya she is my girl...a guy who has a great sense of humour n cn mk her laugh....a guy who has the gutts 2 accept his love before his parents and fight for the girl...a guy who respects her....trusts her and loves her.....i guess if i have to prioritise what's the most essential thing in a relationship it is the respect...if your counterpart doesn't respect you and your feelings that relation can never be successful.a girl would always love a guy who expresses it to her that how much she is important to him and his life..
most of the times guy's fail to explain that what they feel and give the reason that they are poor at expressing...my question to my guy frens.....when they realise that they are in love..what makes them go and confess it before the girl that they love her...isn't that a kind of a expression of thoughts and feelings....then what goes wrong after few days.why don't they express their feelings.....why do they hide them.....what stops them? a girl always wants to know what a guy feels for her.they don't want someone who just earns money and gives it to her....
we all are social animals and each of us has our own emotional requirements which needs to be fulfilled...and so here it goes to all my guy friends....never hide your feelings or feel embarassed about what you feel for your girl...expression is the most essential thing.....express feelings and trust me it will make your relation stronger....99% of your problems will get solved.....every time you meet her let her know that you love her and care for her..show it in your acts......and you will be happy for ever.....afterall what a girl wants is your love,care and concern.............
I am sure my friends must be wondering that it's been some 4-5 months since i have created my own blog and all of a sudden i came up with such a topic to write about.Well day before yesterday after lunch when i returned to my room and ideally sat with my books to study for the exam the very next day, i found that it's too early to start studying for the exam....Still there were some 17-18 hrs left for the exam to start....and so let me watch a movie!!!!!!!..Anyways it would just take 2hrs of my time and then i can probably sit with a fresh mood 2 study...Sorry Bhai!!!-
after the movie i sat down to think about the discussion i had with my frens during dinner few days back..what does a girl actually want in a relationship?.i was telling them that basically a girl looks for love and attention....ya money is important but then not too much that a girl would leave a guy for it....one of ma friends contradicted...saying"no neha there are girls who just run behind money.they want their guys to be rich and looks actually donot matter too much until and unless the guy can bear all the expenses"...when i thought about it i felt that yes probably such things also happen with girls...so today after watching the movie sorry bhai the topic became fresh in my mind again....... ofcourse looks do matter and even money does...every girl wants her guy to be rich and good looking...but what is that she looks for the most in the guy........love,care and attention.....
which girl would'nt love someone who is smart, rich....but every girl also wants someone who praises her...who cares for her....someone for whom she is the world...a guy who loves her more then she loves him....a guy who understands before she speaks....a guy who doesn't hesistate telling his friends that ya she is my girl...a guy who has a great sense of humour n cn mk her laugh....a guy who has the gutts 2 accept his love before his parents and fight for the girl...a guy who respects her....trusts her and loves her.....i guess if i have to prioritise what's the most essential thing in a relationship it is the respect...if your counterpart doesn't respect you and your feelings that relation can never be successful.a girl would always love a guy who expresses it to her that how much she is important to him and his life..
most of the times guy's fail to explain that what they feel and give the reason that they are poor at expressing...my question to my guy frens.....when they realise that they are in love..what makes them go and confess it before the girl that they love her...isn't that a kind of a expression of thoughts and feelings....then what goes wrong after few days.why don't they express their feelings.....why do they hide them.....what stops them? a girl always wants to know what a guy feels for her.they don't want someone who just earns money and gives it to her....
we all are social animals and each of us has our own emotional requirements which needs to be fulfilled...and so here it goes to all my guy friends....never hide your feelings or feel embarassed about what you feel for your girl...expression is the most essential thing.....express feelings and trust me it will make your relation stronger....99% of your problems will get solved.....every time you meet her let her know that you love her and care for her..show it in your acts......and you will be happy for ever.....afterall what a girl wants is your love,care and concern.............
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Unknown said...
This is an ageless question..as of I am concerned..to mee wt matters most is LOVE..CARE..ATTENTION..EXPRESSION n LOYALTY..!!!
His Nature..Looks n Physical appearance r secondary factors..
nice job swty..keep rockin!!!
Nidz said...
hey ..
well nice post to start with.
yes all are want somethign or the other from a relationship.
some wants just love and other do run afta money and stuff.
we all get selfish .. we all want things fr ourself. we want someone to love, to care, to hug.
its very imp to express. most guys suck at it. i agree
Unknown said...
Well Neha, Wow! I always thought of you as a pretty bunny but never thought you could be so clear! Hmm I have to agree that this is an excellent post. Nice blog, keep going.... Good luck.
Unknown said...
well written
Mysterious Mia said...
babes thanks for stopping by at mine....i like the post
actually to be honest i am at astage trying to figure out what is it that men want mate....grrrrrrr!!! its like r they even sure of what they want...
Sach_In said...
Why'd a dude have to fight it out with his parents ?
Bal vivah kar raha hai kya ?
Neha Singh said...
@Princess Mia- well if it's about what a guy wants from his gal..we will have to ask some guy regarding it.... :)
i hope you figure it out fast and write a post on it....so that all of us can know what does a guy actually want of a relationship... :)
cheers.....
Neha Singh said...
@saachin- no dude... fighting with parents mean that the guy can convince his parents and advocate for himself and his girl before them to be together for life long...
i hope you get the point now.. :)
thanks for stoppin by and finding out time to read it...
Unknown said...
Well that was certainly a well written blog. You do write good. As far as my views are concerned on this I guess even girls don't know what they want most of the time. Sorry but they are confused with almost everything around them. Certainly what you said is true to both girls and boys alike. We all want a boy/girl who love us madly, cares about us, believes in us, understands us and most importantly is brave enough to accept it infront of the world and MUST have gutts to fight for the relation against all odds that come in the way of their LOVE.
Neha Singh said...
@sunny- i agree to what you just said....
thanx for the comment
Suyog Shopurkar said...
u can never generalise this thing coz u cant imagine wat a girl wats............girls are simply unpredictable.....yes i can say this because i think guys can better evaluate girls than girls.......
and the most important thing here to mention is that ...the top priority thing for all the girls is money ......they want there future secure.........they dont wanna strive for thier rest of life just to get the "aTTenttion and care " that the guy has in store for them ..................so u may be right but i dont agre with you
Anonymous said...
first of all Can any one of you tell me wat is love?
k agreed a guy fails to express his feeling but on the other hand y the gals ready to accept his love & take him her man without thinking about her own future.
y the hell gals don't ask will he be ready for marriage in future?
k neha
every time he meet her & let her know that he love her and care for her..show it in your acts......and you will be happy for ever.....afterall what a girl wants is your love,care and concern
k a gal wants above things & boy will die to do this when he is in love . but when the times come for marriage ,he get confused k he has committed to some one he got the other thing to look after.
so gals don't blame a guy always
better go for arrange marriage
u ll have enough of time to know a guy B/w getting enggeged & marriage
good topic neha!
Hi neha m ur well wisher
Neha Singh said...
@suyog- different people have different opinions and so my views are expressed in my blog....money is not everything in life though it plays an important role... :)
i dont really disagree with you because what ever u said is also seen among girls...
but as far as my opinion and view goes i would like to stick to my point........
thanx for stopping by and tkn out ur precious time....
hoping to hear more from you in the near future.......
cheers:)
Neha Singh said...
@Mr.Anonymous- when a guy knows that he has committed himself to someone else for marriage ( i hope you are talking about parents) then why does he need to commit to the girl...
why doesn he make the girl clear about it on the 1st day itself...
dere is no relation where a girl and a guy don't talk bout their future and marriage...
so why doesn the guy put things clear before the gal....
well my post is not what a gal wants..... and not on why dont guys fight for their gal..i think it's a nice topic on which i can write upon....
thanx 4 d wonderful idea...
n thanx 4 droppin in ...
hope 2 hear more 4rm u in the near future..
cheers
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