Its been an year since I got married to Mohit..Life has been really interesting, challenging in the last 1 year.....
I have changed as a person and i can feel the changes myself...from being very very very careless i have improved and i am just careless now not very very very careless..:)
Its easy to say I love this person and want to get married to him/her asap. But then we don't realize that life is going to totally change...
Of course there are lot of good things that come along with marriage but what also comes along are responsibilities. Life is not the same as it is in the movies..The girl after marriage will be in saree completely decked up with lot of make up, jewellery. Sleeps with jewellery and wears heavy sarees at home..Life seems to be so easy as it is shown in few serials..on the other hand it also not the way how it shown in some other sidey hindi serials..The girl being tortured after marriage. There is a new conspiracy against her in the family...She is not treated well...I really do not know why such serials are made and people like me still watch them knowing that this is no where related to real life....
Ok..so we were discussing about how my life has changed after marriage...Before marriage i was least concerned about what i will eat the next day...Now after marriage i think of what has to be cooked for breakfast, lunch and dinner...Before marriage i used to put up in a PG and most of the time the dinner used to be popcorn or fruits and for a change at times i used to make khicdi and have..After work i used to come and hit the bed.switch on my laptop, switch on the tv and talk to mom or some friend..what i used to do was multi tasking and when i used to feel hungry my food was fruits, popcorn or khichdi.
I used to hardly care if my clothes were ironed or not for next day office........I used to get up decide what to wear and then run around to iron clothes and get ready...used to wash clothes one day before office when i used to realize my wardrobe has no clothes for the next day.. Now after marriage i make sure all the clothes are washed and ironed before the week starts...
My bed used to be so messed up.I used to get up late in the morning and run to get ready for office..never folded the blanket, wet towel lying on the bed, clothes lying and me running around to get ready and reach office on time...never cared about anything...Now the 1st thing that i do is getting up and folding the blanket.making bed properly, hanging the wet towel in the balcony for drying.folding clothes and keeping them in proper place..i hate messed up bed now..
Life has changed in so many other ways and yes changed for good........... and i am glad......when i think of those old days it feels nice but when i see myself now i feel nicer...Its nice to be little messed up during the bachelor days and organized after marriage...
