Me and My Sweet Lil World....

Boy and Gal become friends....Boy loves the Gal...Gal doesnt love the boy.....Boy moves to another city for studies and Gal falls in love with the Hero who is Boy's friend......Hero and Gal go around..The Boy is jealous as is madly in love with the Gal.The Gal rejects him and dates his friend the Hero..As in Dharma productions boy is always very poor and doesnt have enough money, aur---saare duniya k dukh use hi hai...he is unable to clear his entrance exam and his father passes away... n then like what happens in the movies..within few months he becomes rich....

The Hero is busy and doesnt have time and the in the meanwhile the Boy becomes villain and takes advantage of it..Both of them (The Gal and the Boy) come close to each other and start dating each other, the Hero totally unaware of it...The Gal realises that she is in love with the Boy and is about to break it up with the Hero...Then comes a twist as in the movies..the conscious of the Boy tells him that he did wrong and got the gal through wrong ways and is a bad boy...Then he does everything to show the Gal that he is bad and Hero is the right guy for her....The Hero and Gal get married.....and the Guy keeps on crying....

I just hated it...

Why such late realization by the Boy...that he was on the wrong track and whatever he did to get the Gal was wrong and the guy who actually deserved the gal is the Hero....and then he creates another plot to bring the hero and gal together.... typical Dharma Productions..

The other day i had seen Chetan Bhagat on television debating on his new book and saying "what i am trying to show through this book is BOY and GAL can never be best friends in real life also"...

Here is what i have to say to Mr.Bhagat------- Mr.Bhagat i am married and i have best friends who are guys...i feel free to call them, talk to them, discuss my problems , share my happiness at any point during the day..... May be Mr.Bhagat you need few friends in your life who are girls who can show you the reality of the world that there is no harm in being friends with the opposite sex and a boy and gal can be best friends.....

I have changed as a person and i can feel the changes myself...from being very very very careless i have improved and i am just careless now not very very very careless..:)

Its easy to say I love this person and want to get married to him/her asap. But then we don't realize that life is going to totally change...

Of course there are lot of good things that come along with marriage but what also comes along are responsibilities. Life is not the same as it is in the movies..The girl after marriage will be in saree completely decked up with lot of make up, jewellery. Sleeps with jewellery and wears heavy sarees at home..Life seems to be so easy as it is shown in few serials..on the other hand it also not the way how it shown in some other sidey hindi serials..The girl being tortured after marriage. There is a new conspiracy against her in the family...She is not treated well...I really do not know why such serials are made and people like me still watch them knowing that this is no where related to real life....

Ok..so we were discussing about how my life has changed after marriage...Before marriage i was least concerned about what i will eat the next day...Now after marriage i think of what has to be cooked for breakfast, lunch and dinner...Before marriage i used to put up in a PG and most of the time the dinner used to be popcorn or fruits and for a change at times i used to make khicdi and have..After work i used to come and hit the bed.switch on my laptop, switch on the tv and talk to mom or some friend..what i used to do was multi tasking and when i used to feel hungry my food was fruits, popcorn or khichdi.

I used to hardly care if my clothes were ironed or not for next day office........I used to get up decide what to wear and then run around to iron clothes and get ready...used to wash clothes one day before office when i used to realize my wardrobe has no clothes for the next day.. Now after marriage i make sure all the clothes are washed and ironed before the week starts...

My bed used to be so messed up.I used to get up late in the morning and run to get ready for office..never folded the blanket, wet towel lying on the bed, clothes lying and me running around to get ready and reach office on time...never cared about anything...Now the 1st thing that i do is getting up and folding the blanket.making bed properly, hanging the wet towel in the balcony for drying.folding clothes and keeping them in proper place..i hate messed up bed now..

Life has changed in so many other ways and yes changed for good........... and i am glad......when i think of those old days it feels nice but when i see myself now i feel nicer...Its nice to be little messed up during the bachelor days and organized after marriage...