Have guys actually thought of what does a girl actually want in a relationship? Something that every boy wants to know. Is it love,money,attention,family background or looks?????
I am sure my friends must be wondering that it's been some 4-5 months since i have created my own blog and all of a sudden i came up with such a topic to write about.Well day before yesterday after lunch when i returned to my room and ideally sat with my books to study for the exam the very next day, i found that it's too early to start studying for the exam....Still there were some 17-18 hrs left for the exam to start....and so let me watch a movie!!!!!!!..Anyways it would just take 2hrs of my time and then i can probably sit with a fresh mood 2 study...Sorry Bhai!!!-
after the movie i sat down to think about the discussion i had with my frens during dinner few days back..what does a girl actually want in a relationship?.i was telling them that basically a girl looks for love and attention....ya money is important but then not too much that a girl would leave a guy for it....one of ma friends contradicted...saying"no neha there are girls who just run behind money.they want their guys to be rich and looks actually donot matter too much until and unless the guy can bear all the expenses"...when i thought about it i felt that yes probably such things also happen with girls...so today after watching the movie sorry bhai the topic became fresh in my mind again....... ofcourse looks do matter and even money does...every girl wants her guy to be rich and good looking...but what is that she looks for the most in the guy........love,care and attention.....
which girl would'nt love someone who is smart, rich....but every girl also wants someone who praises her...who cares for her....someone for whom she is the world...a guy who loves her more then she loves him....a guy who understands before she speaks....a guy who doesn't hesistate telling his friends that ya she is my girl...a guy who has a great sense of humour n cn mk her laugh....a guy who has the gutts 2 accept his love before his parents and fight for the girl...a guy who respects her....trusts her and loves her.....i guess if i have to prioritise what's the most essential thing in a relationship it is the respect...if your counterpart doesn't respect you and your feelings that relation can never be successful.a girl would always love a guy who expresses it to her that how much she is important to him and his life..
most of the times guy's fail to explain that what they feel and give the reason that they are poor at expressing...my question to my guy frens.....when they realise that they are in love..what makes them go and confess it before the girl that they love her...isn't that a kind of a expression of thoughts and feelings....then what goes wrong after few days.why don't they express their feelings.....why do they hide them.....what stops them? a girl always wants to know what a guy feels for her.they don't want someone who just earns money and gives it to her....
we all are social animals and each of us has our own emotional requirements which needs to be fulfilled...and so here it goes to all my guy friends....never hide your feelings or feel embarassed about what you feel for your girl...expression is the most essential thing.....express feelings and trust me it will make your relation stronger....99% of your problems will get solved.....every time you meet her let her know that you love her and care for her..show it in your acts......and you will be happy for ever.....afterall what a girl wants is your love,care and concern.............
I am sure my friends must be wondering that it's been some 4-5 months since i have created my own blog and all of a sudden i came up with such a topic to write about.Well day before yesterday after lunch when i returned to my room and ideally sat with my books to study for the exam the very next day, i found that it's too early to start studying for the exam....Still there were some 17-18 hrs left for the exam to start....and so let me watch a movie!!!!!!!..Anyways it would just take 2hrs of my time and then i can probably sit with a fresh mood 2 study...Sorry Bhai!!!-
after the movie i sat down to think about the discussion i had with my frens during dinner few days back..what does a girl actually want in a relationship?.i was telling them that basically a girl looks for love and attention....ya money is important but then not too much that a girl would leave a guy for it....one of ma friends contradicted...saying"no neha there are girls who just run behind money.they want their guys to be rich and looks actually donot matter too much until and unless the guy can bear all the expenses"...when i thought about it i felt that yes probably such things also happen with girls...so today after watching the movie sorry bhai the topic became fresh in my mind again....... ofcourse looks do matter and even money does...every girl wants her guy to be rich and good looking...but what is that she looks for the most in the guy........love,care and attention.....
which girl would'nt love someone who is smart, rich....but every girl also wants someone who praises her...who cares for her....someone for whom she is the world...a guy who loves her more then she loves him....a guy who understands before she speaks....a guy who doesn't hesistate telling his friends that ya she is my girl...a guy who has a great sense of humour n cn mk her laugh....a guy who has the gutts 2 accept his love before his parents and fight for the girl...a guy who respects her....trusts her and loves her.....i guess if i have to prioritise what's the most essential thing in a relationship it is the respect...if your counterpart doesn't respect you and your feelings that relation can never be successful.a girl would always love a guy who expresses it to her that how much she is important to him and his life..
most of the times guy's fail to explain that what they feel and give the reason that they are poor at expressing...my question to my guy frens.....when they realise that they are in love..what makes them go and confess it before the girl that they love her...isn't that a kind of a expression of thoughts and feelings....then what goes wrong after few days.why don't they express their feelings.....why do they hide them.....what stops them? a girl always wants to know what a guy feels for her.they don't want someone who just earns money and gives it to her....
we all are social animals and each of us has our own emotional requirements which needs to be fulfilled...and so here it goes to all my guy friends....never hide your feelings or feel embarassed about what you feel for your girl...expression is the most essential thing.....express feelings and trust me it will make your relation stronger....99% of your problems will get solved.....every time you meet her let her know that you love her and care for her..show it in your acts......and you will be happy for ever.....afterall what a girl wants is your love,care and concern.............
